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Handkerchief Code
What is Handkerchief Code? The handkerchief code, also known as the hanky code, the bandana code, and flagging, became popular in the 1970s. It was originally used by gay men, casual sex-seekers or BDSM practitioners to signify sexual acts and fetishes that they are interested in giving or receiving. Since
Switching
What is “Switching”? Switching in BDSM takes place when a person or player is able to enjoy and fulfill both dominant/top and submissive/bottom roles. Switching involves exploring, sharing and recognizing the opposite dimensions and aspects of the roles and identity of each player. A History of Switching Roles in BDSM
Submissive
What Is a Submissive? A Submissive is someone who willingly hands over control to another person. This can be either verbal or physical control. Submissiveness is not gender specific. Submissives can play their role full time, during specific sessions, or switch from Sub to Dom within sessions. A submissive is
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