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Chastity is limiting all sexual activities except those permitted by the dominant. Those in chastity will often wear something to symbolize their situation, usually a lock if not a full chastity belt. The dominant in a chastity relationship is often referred to as the ‘keyholder’ and will have complete control
BDSM Contract
A written document wherein partners agree upon the BDSM activities they are willing to participate in before a scene takes place. Though they are called contracts, they are not legally binding in any way and are just meant to put in permanent copy what the partners discussed beforehand. For the
Bad/Good Pain
A jokey way to differentiate between pain that is part of consensual play and is designed to trigger arousal (good pain), and pain that is beyond the limits of consensual play and it not arousing in the least (bad pain).
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Pony Play
A form of pet play in which a submissive dresses up as a pony or a horse and their dominant assumes the role of a rider or trainer. People who engage in pony play enjoy tapping into their beastly side, dominating or being dominated. Pony play does not have to
Bondage Chair
A common piece of bondage equipment that can be found in many dungeons and clubs. A chair with a high back made out of sturdy material and often nailed to the floor, with several straps and buckles to allow the dom to tie their sub into the chair. The chair
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